HARISH turns 25

भ्राताश्री हरीश को जनम दीन मुबारक हो। वह आज पचीस साल के हो गए है।

Let me throw some light on who "HARISH" is, he is my very own elder brother who lives in MUMBAI and has flown luckily to HYDERABAD where my parents stay for celebrating his birthday, actually by sheer luck he got some assessments there(his job), By that i really was trying to say that the exact motive is not celebrating birthday but job.

Actually i have a very faint memory which reminds me that he is 5yrs elder to me;-D, so i feel he is 25 coz i m 20. But exactly, he is 26yrs old as he has finished 25 today. Now from today onwards he is said 2 b running 26.

ALL IN THE PHOTO ARE MY जीग्री दोस्त BUT THIS POST IS DEDICATED TO MY BROTHER, SO JUST THOUGHT OF MAKING HIM THE "CENTER OF ATTRACTION" IN THIS PARTICULAR POST( SORRY FOR WITHERING OTHERS;-))

FEELS OLD 2 me:

My brother is not that old actually as said earlier he is just 5yrs elder to me, as a matter of fact i have a student in my department who is 6yrs elder to me(name withheld). So there is no age gap which i consider makes him old, but there are few things which have changed; which makes me feel that he is old:

1. He has got a tummy (he has become a pukka मामा)
2. He has got a peaceful job with enough satisfaction(HOPE SO!!) (now that's a major point, coz most of us are not happy with our job)
3. He has generated a lot of parental sentiment (it is very usual with people but this is very faint in my case, i never get excited 2 meet my parents but i just got scrapped by one of his friends in orkut; who said that he is really excited 2 meet mom & dad, Now thats a hell lot of change)
4. He is ready for a marriage (cant believe he wants 2 marry @ this age, i mean v guys in college usual talk of getting married @ 27/28, So i feel even a day b4 it is fast)
5. He is planning to buy a house in Mumbai (speculation from my mom, Now that aint a piece of cake, u need 2 have some bank balance and also a loan sanctioned; so i feel he has gone a long long way)

PRESENT SITUATION

ME->Chennai
DAD & MOM -> Hyderabad
BROTHER -> Mumbai
GRANDFATHER -> Heaven (100% sure)

I still remember all of us living together, i SENSE that the family days were very good when we were in NAGPUR and MUMBAI( in silver-oak),i would really like 2 relive them, our patti (grandmother) also stayed with us but she expired when i was in 7th standard and i seriously dint have much contribution and participation is family matter's at that time, i was not aware of what is exactly wrong/right with our family economically, socially, personally (and all other "ly") etc. Thats the main reason why i dint include my grandmother in the above situation. There is a lot to tell about my family and if i start then i would keep writing for hours which at this point of time doesn't seem possible, so would post one thread exclusively on this blog or else my other blogs.

PS: Main reason for this post in not family but my brothers birthday.

PS2: I aint sentimental, not even a drop of it is present in my blood, but i express what i really feel ( its realistic) no दीखावा.

PS3:at times i get really serious about things ( mentally ), which dilutes my heart with my hollow brain and then it gives a "distorted functioning" image. I m really about 2 reach such a situation , so its better i leave.