Leave it up to them to realize

You've been trying to tell someone the same thing again and again, because as a third person you get a better picture of whats wrong and how to correct it, and sometimes it's just a been-there-done-that situation and you know exactly what to do to sail smooth in that situation. But unfortunately, your help is of no use because they still end up doing the same mistake.


How much ever you try, you won't be able to make people realize something unless your a celebrity who people follow blindly - which is very unlikely. So, if you see your friend always making the same mistake, always doing the same things and expecting different results, always getting annoyed for the same reason, always unconsciously doing something unrealistic...then what you need to do is just let it be, don't try to correct anything or add your expert comments/views, how much ever you try, you won't be able to help her, you know why? coz those who want to do the right thing would do it the first time you tell them about it...but sometimes, people need to realize it for themselves before they can correct whatever wrong they are doing...these people like to learn by doing and screwing (which is absolutely fine ;-P). So just let them be, don't try to enforce what you know for sure is the correct thing, coz that won't be entertained and you will be the culprit/looser whatsoever.


You can't help them, it's totally up to them to correct their mistakes and come to a realization.