Is it good to control people to get done what you want

First of, it is very difficult to control people. By control, I mean, getting someone to do what we want from them.
That said, I don't think it is such a nice thing, or is it? But anyway, we control people who we live and work with, that is, our close friends and family. And when our control over them isn't strong enough, we feel that they have distanced themselves from us, and of course, we get annoyed by them.

As we grow old, we find that people tend to let go of what other people do and what other people can do, they accept what they can do for themselves.Therefore,  in a way, as we age, we get wiser and we understand that we should not get annoyed or worried by things that are not directly under our control.

But, the thought of controlling someone is really fascinating. It is a practice that a very few people have lived by, the Nobel kings and princesses. And we know for sure that those who controlled more people ended up with much more luxurious life. Controlling people without them resisting control is the way of the kings and seems a fair deal. It is a gateway to an epicurean life.

Is controlling people without them resisting a good thing?....Think, think!