Poor sensitive people in the insensitive world

Most of us have heard this: you are so insensitive. This is because it is just impossible to be sensitive to issues that we don’t consider important or we don’t consider it to be a big deal.

Being sensitive is a very good thing. As a matter of fact, even the most insensitive guys (usually guys in their early 20s) like sensitive people (usually girls in their early 20s). The fact that someone is really bothered because of a stain on their cloth is just dumb for guys, and they would not entertain this stupid thinking or try to understand the women who has a stain in her cloth. The women feels really uncomfortable, as uncomfortable when guys see a big dent in their bikes after parking it in a safe parking area.

I just had a long 3 hour chat with a friend and I found that some issues don’t seem sensitive, but in reality are very very sensitive. And, unless you hear the person’s feelings and be receptive for an hour, you won’t be able to understand how sensitive the issue is. Frankly, some of us are freaking insensitive, for some of us the life-threatening issues seem like a piece of cake, but for others even small issues may seem as life-threatening (may be, I am saying small issue because I consider it to be a small issue; that is, maybe it is really a life-threatening issue).  

We are living in a insensitive world. So, let’s change. Let’s be sensitive (or to start with, let’s just pretend to be sensitive), hear what the other person has to say. Let’s not treat people recklessly, at work or at home.