Grab attention or awkwardness
We travel around 3-5 days out of the 30 odd days in a month & see millions of people who we don't know and if your working in IT/manufacturing sector or some busy city, add to the millions count who might be acquaintances & friends. So, virtually there cant be a day where you don't see a new person...that's really cool, fresh stock everyday..wow!!
Now where are we heading with this; there are a lot of people who just seem to be attention grabbers and they really do get what they want with the elegance/charm/flamboyance they carry but for some it's just way too reverse, with the intention of grabbing attention they end up grabbing a truck load of awkwardness. We see these awkward people and feel for our eyes which badly wants to see something decent/beautiful.
Again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Something which looks good to my eyes might really be a mirror cracking material for you, so, we gotta be looking the way our crowd/folks expect us to be.....A BIG NO, we do not have to be the way others want us look. It's really sick to adjust your looks for others and feel not so confident about oneself, So, It's always advisable to market yourself (yes I said market!! I am not high) the way you want your kinda people to see you, that's more like it; remember, you cant be everything to everyone. We need to dress & style for a select crowd who we would like to gel with, that not just gets you to who you are looking for but it also brings you to the real you and for the gazillion'th time "you are the best when you be yourself".
Presenting the author to you, he has been ridiculed by almost each and every other family member of his for the terrorist like looks he possess, but still he feels his beard is his asset...get him to reality if you can...cheers
PS: I saw this guy (yes, a guy) grabbing all the possible awkwardness from the people walking/driving around. O Man!! was he ugly to the extent of being ugly..;-)
Now where are we heading with this; there are a lot of people who just seem to be attention grabbers and they really do get what they want with the elegance/charm/flamboyance they carry but for some it's just way too reverse, with the intention of grabbing attention they end up grabbing a truck load of awkwardness. We see these awkward people and feel for our eyes which badly wants to see something decent/beautiful.
Again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Something which looks good to my eyes might really be a mirror cracking material for you, so, we gotta be looking the way our crowd/folks expect us to be.....A BIG NO, we do not have to be the way others want us look. It's really sick to adjust your looks for others and feel not so confident about oneself, So, It's always advisable to market yourself (yes I said market!! I am not high) the way you want your kinda people to see you, that's more like it; remember, you cant be everything to everyone. We need to dress & style for a select crowd who we would like to gel with, that not just gets you to who you are looking for but it also brings you to the real you and for the gazillion'th time "you are the best when you be yourself".
Presenting the author to you, he has been ridiculed by almost each and every other family member of his for the terrorist like looks he possess, but still he feels his beard is his asset...get him to reality if you can...cheers
Tried google but no snap for this article, took a 20 odd takes to reach this..;-)..highlights: my terrorist like beard
PS: I saw this guy (yes, a guy) grabbing all the possible awkwardness from the people walking/driving around. O Man!! was he ugly to the extent of being ugly..;-)
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