Education ain't everything
I just found myself being very egoistic/घमंडी, which is really a path way to an unfulfilled life. I am not that educated i.e. I have not yet finished my engineering & apart from that I have not been really a studious candidate amongst my peer's (just passed my subjects ;-)), So its like any other kid on the block who is "OK TYPES" in everything he does.
Actually, if I compare myself with a person who has had a tough life then I would probably lack moral values w.r.t to him and would be way backwards in understanding life and judging things. I feel this behavior of mine has sprouted within me just because of my friend circle who really do not care much about their parents and take every behavior of theirs to be granted.
Actually, if I compare myself with a person who has had a tough life then I would probably lack moral values w.r.t to him and would be way backwards in understanding life and judging things. I feel this behavior of mine has sprouted within me just because of my friend circle who really do not care much about their parents and take every behavior of theirs to be granted.
The Problem
- I hear my friends speaking अनाप शनाप with their parents on the phone
- I see the jokes which have explicit contents like Disrespecting parents/elders
- To hide my mistakes- I blame others for my failures wherein I am the main culprit behind the slump
- Targeting those less educated(mom)- blaming them for not raising me properly/parenting wherein its absolutely absurd and false to the core, they have done their job with utmost efficiency and given whatever they could to raise us & BTW my mom's a B.Ed, which is a certified course.
Corrections required
- Slowly, conclude things after a reasonable research over it
- Never utter anything which disrespects anyone (mainly elders)
- Never use a rough/scornful tone with elders coz they may find it offending
- Be Polite, win win situation for both
- If you find something unreasonable, put forward your points, never impose them in any way
- Stop thinking of what has happened, instead focus on what is required to be done
- make everyone happy, never ever directly/indirectly jeer at others
Now that a good thing which I have done and would probably follow throughout. This was something which had to come around an year back, but never mind as its better late than never.
P.S: Now I have aged and now is the time to direct myself to where I wanna be, not to depend on anyone for anything (as in work or advise).
P.S: Be a "gentleman" rather than a "Stud boy"
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