F.Y.I

Some bullets from a week full of weakness, Nah! If you see it, its just learning all the time. Humans evolve, Funny but true- It takes examples & real life encounters for us to understand some of the very easiest & the obvious things in life.

1. Boomeranged- I was running after a few things for over 2 months now, my run might have transformed to a marathon or a long walk but truly the effort never goes waste & it comes back for sure, you just need to give it a little more time than expected. Now, I find myself being surrounded by it all the time. It reminds me of a wise line "You get what you give to your life"
2. It's good to hide certain facts- People go nuts over issues which they consider as ill mannered or a taboo. Of course, "When in Rome, be a Roman" but sometimes its just oh k to let go of what's uncomfortable to others. Lesson learned: Hide facts which others might not like to listen from your mouth. For instance, telling your boss about you going for a smoke/drink is really not a good idea coz during job hours you might surprise yourself with her change of attitude with you.
3. Just ask man! - Its so true, I tried to implement a principle from a book. It say ASK ASK ASK. I asked for what I wanted to a person and guess what! they have no problems in helping me out. In general, we are afraid to ask a girl out, but why? in the start we don't have her, after asking her out, if we get a "NO", still we don't have her (we don't loose anything, its just from where we started), but what if we get a "YES"...Sigh.
4. Don't get terrorised by expectations- As dull as it sounds, you don't need to be what others expect of you. If people don't like my beard, that's fine with me even if it looks awful...I am not growing it for them. Just ignore comments which gets in your way. You are expected to be what you wanna be.
5. Help people make a choice- If I have my product or my idea which I need to sell to someone, I know there are a lot of others doing the same, So, Instead of telling them what my product is all about, Its better to tell them what they are gonna get out of it. I was car shopping this weekend; I visited Ford, Hyundai, Tata, Honda, Maruti & Chevi dealership; For the price range we were looking for, everyone had a good car for sale. But of all the cars i.e. i10, i20, Chevi Spark, Chevi U-va, Indica Vista or Indigo or Punto...Everything is more or less same for buyers who don't care about what German technology is or what engine efficiency is, right now I'd go for Indica Vista (higher end) which I hated in the beginning...Why? coz he (salesman) helped me make a choice & also explain me on how that car can make my life easier (unfortunately, no funds, so drop the car idea).
6. Easier done than said- just get out of your comfort zone, you will find all that you were missing. Call back a person who you lost in touch with, initiate a thing which you screwed up, face a person who you always wanted to avoid & meet people you hated ;-), try the things which your age group finds childish. You know what? I went out of my comfort zone to experience things which I'd never have experienced. Nobody is evil for long, people change.
7. Money means a lot to the world but not you- again a dull topic but when I was gambling with all senior citizens/oldies last to last week, We were playing "3 carder", One women said "You don't wanna be the richest in the graveyard, So, Why don't you increase the stakes". . Risks are so essential, but make sure you know how much your gonna loose before you make a move coz that's what is know as calculated risks ;-).

That's about it, its not 7 points in 7 days. Its just random and hope to get a lot more things out of what I am doing daily. Do what you love to do not what comes to you or what you can, coz satisfaction is what you want at the end of the day.
OMG its Monday tomorrow, Shit job!!..;-), K then, heading for a concert from an Oscar winning chap.